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		<title>Stuff Your Pompoms!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Nov 2010 22:54:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Emma-Louise</dc:creator>
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<p>I liked this rant &#8211; about feminism and cheerleading and whether it&#8217;s a &#8217;sport&#8217; or not&#8230; Because cheerleading is now considered a sport in 37% of UK schools!</p>
<p>Check out  The Observer editorial here.</p>
<p>Sadly I found this article too late to comment &#8211; otherwise I would have added that one of the things that drives me [...]]]></description>
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<p>I liked this rant &#8211; about feminism and cheerleading and whether it&#8217;s a &#8217;sport&#8217; or not&#8230; Because cheerleading is now considered a sport in 37% of UK schools!</p>
<p>Check out  <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2010/oct/03/victoria-coren-school-sports" target="_blank">The Observer editorial here</a>.</p>
<p>Sadly I found this article too late to comment &#8211; otherwise I would have added that one of the things that drives me crazy about women &#8211; is that many of us don&#8217;t know how to compete with each other in a <em>healthy way</em>. </p>
<p>Competition between women often ends up in bitching, complaining, backstabbing and damaged friendships (just watch an episode of Next Top Model!). I believe this is because we don&#8217;t get to practice competing against each other enough growing up. Competition is seen as unfeminine&#8230; Whereas for men it seems growing up is ALL about competing with each other. And whilst I wouldn&#8217;t want to reach that extreme &#8211; at least they get to let all their energy and passion loose, try their hardest and then despite competing hard with each other &#8211; still be friends afterwards&#8230; I&#8217;m sure there are other women out there (like me) who have held themselves back to avoid upsetting others?</p>
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		<title>News &#8211; &#8220;RapeLay&#8221; a Video Game where the AIM is to Rape and Assault Women!!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 22:48:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Emma-Louise</dc:creator>
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<p>So, I know I know, I&#8217;m supposed to be recuperating from surgery. And I am &#8211; honest! BUT I spotted this news article online &#8211; and I was so STUNNED that I needed to share my horror with you guys. So, please let me know what you think by commenting beneath this posting!</p>
<p>It reminds me how [...]]]></description>
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<p>So, I know I know, I&#8217;m supposed to be recuperating from surgery. And I am &#8211; honest! BUT I spotted this news article online &#8211; and I was so STUNNED that I needed to share my horror with you guys. So, <strong>please let me know what you think</strong> by commenting beneath this posting!</p>
<p>It reminds me how lucky we are and how much women&#8217;s rights still need to be fought for&#8230; </p>
<p>ARTICLE EXTRACT: &#8220;With the <strong>click of your mouse, you can grope her and lift her skirt</strong>. Then you can <strong>follow her aboard the train, assaulting her sister and her mother</strong>. As you continue to play, &#8220;friends&#8221; join in and in a series of graphic, interactive scenes,<strong> you can corner the women, rape them again and again</strong>.&#8221;</p>
<p>This is a videogame created in Japan &#8211; but because of the internet the game became available globally before being withdrawn. Sadly it is still available from underground sources. See the <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2010/WORLD/asiapcf/03/30/japan.video.game.rape/index.html?hpt=C1" target="_blank">CNN news article here</a>.</p>
<p>I keep picturing a teenage boy playing this game, then going to the subway &#8211; perhaps with his friends &#8211; and assaulting a girl for real&#8230; Remember that the brain can&#8217;t tell the difference between something real and something vividly imagined &#8211; think how you feel after waking from some dreams!</p>
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		<title>Lunchbreak Inspiration &#8211; Eve Ensler</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 16:27:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Emma-Louise</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>If you ever need some intelligent inspiration or entertainment on your lunchbreak I cannot recommend TED.com enough. Mostly 20 minute informative talks on a huge range of subjects from many inspiring people of today.</p>
<p>So, I found this recently by Eve Ensler - Embrace Your Inner Girl. It&#8217;s a great fit with what I would love to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-550" href="http://rebelwomencafe.com/lunchbreak-inspiration-eve-ensler/womanj0441048/"></a><a rel="attachment wp-att-1406" href="http://rebelwomencafe.com/lunchbreak-inspiration-brene-brown/lunchtime-reminder/"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1406" title="Lunchtime Reminder" src="http://rebelwomencafe.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/00439499-166x250.jpg" alt="" width="166" height="250" /></a>If you ever need some intelligent inspiration or entertainment on your lunchbreak <strong>I cannot recommend TED.com enough</strong>. Mostly 20 minute informative talks on a huge range of subjects from many inspiring people of today.</p>
<p>So, I found this recently by Eve Ensler - <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/eve_ensler_embrace_your_inner_girl.html" target="_blank">Embrace Your Inner Girl</a>. It&#8217;s a great fit with what I would love to achieve with RebelWomen: Strong, powerful, sensitive women &#8211; who aren&#8217;t afraid to base decisions and their lives on intuition and feelings and take this energy into the world!</p>
<p>I think we need more feminine energy in government, corporations, society, the world. We need more compassion, more long-term/far-sighted thinking and more seeing options and shades of grey. Both men AND women have been taught that our feelings and compassion are weak, whereas it&#8217;s precisely these qualities that empower us to be PASSIONATE, STRONG and SUCCESSFUL&#8230;</p>
<p>So, watch this TED talk by Eve Ensler &#8211; famous for her Vagina Monologues <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/eve_ensler_embrace_your_inner_girl.html" target="_blank">Embrace Your Inner Girl</a> and <span style="color: #008000;"><em>let us know what you think by leaving a comment below!</em></span></p>
<p>PS. I wonder what Ms Ensler would think of the &#8220;<a href="http://rebelwomencafe.com/muff-maintenance/" target="_self">Muff Maintenance Products</a>&#8221; I posted about recently&#8230;</p>
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